Departure

After months of being bed-ridden due to a stroke, my uncle (mum's eldest sister's husband) passed away at his home at Bagan Sungai Burung. Heard that it was due to an infection from a bed sore. Quite a shocker. When we got the news from my cousin, we immediately arranged for a trip to the fishing village. The Tribe went along too. Thanks to my Airbnb Superhost perks, I booked free lodging at Sungai Besar. The place was spacious and could fit 10 adults.



When we arrived at the wake, the Taoist rituals were already ongoing. While waiting for the intermission, we ate dinner at the wake. In line with the kampung style, much food was prepared for guests. Right after dinner, hot fish porridge and fried bihun with curry chicken was served, together with steamed bao, kuih, loh mai gai, and siew bao. Many ate and chatted, while some had a boisterous gambling session with dominoes.



The rituals were performed in Teochew, and I was surprised to see that they had a LED board to display the chants. The religious ceremony went on till late, with a huge paper offering bonfire at the end. At midnight, we left, and returned in the morning for the funeral. Mum and I walked out with the hearse, but we stopped short of going to the cemetery. Back home, my uncle's sister was busy tidying up, and complaining about the chaos. The family was devoid of a woman's touch for many years. As usual, things were wrapped up with a seafood lunch. Ate at Restoran Tien Yin, then started our journey home.

Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him. May his soul, and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace.