Pampered



Swiped from Xie Kitchen.
Recently, I've been hearing a lot about people voicing out their need to be pampered, protected, taken care of. They want to feel secure in the arms of their significant other. It can be said that the provider of that security and comfort has to do more "work". But I guess it depends on the person. Some people like to be the provider, some like to be the receiver. But it seems that most people I have talked to regarding this wants to be on the receiving end. Don't we all? But herein lies the catch. If everyone wants to be pampered, who'd be left to do the pampering? Where is the balance?

At the end of the day, we don't want each other to be "tired out", being tied down by too much expectations...

Comments

Derek said…
You are right. One can't be always receiving and the other giving. The giver will one day tire out.

So which do you prefer? Didn't say also ;P
Little Prince said…
ohhh... are you implying you like to give? that's hwat... i like to receive... and well once in a blue moon i will give... LOL... come come date me! i want presieezzzzzz!!!
Pluboy2 said…
lOLx.. yealor.. ur post like hanging one geh.. no ending?

so.. r u on the receiving end or the provider end?
hehe...

mind providing me with.. er. teriyaki chicken? KEKE...

I give as much as I receive.. Sometimes I prefer to give, sometimes I prefer to receive.. depends :)
MrBunnyBan said…
*looks at daniel's comment* Hehehehehehehe... I see, William wants to be on the 'giving' end. He must be the 'active' person in the relationship. Hee hee.
William said…
@Derek:
Of course I prefer to receive. But I'll feel bad and would want to give too!

@Daniel:
I'm not surpised! You already have a lot of pressiez from your birthday!

@Takashi:
OK. Your housewarming I'll bring over Teriyaki Chicken. Lol. Very fair of you.

@Ban:
Veiled comments. Blek. Hehe.
Jason said…
Even though I like to receive, I like to give also. you know what i mean? :p
Anonymous said…
Wah~ erm... I never ask my ex to buy me meals~ after the relationship ends, I found out that we did not owne each other things nor money. and i think we loved each other up to the limit that both of us are damn hurt in the end, that means, equality again~ I feel better that way~

Neo
Little Prince said…
i didn't get a presssies from you... and it wasn't a lot kay! gosh... i hope nobody i know reads this... LOL... i am not that tamak can! LOL
nyonyapenang said…
it has to work both ways....if not the giver will be 'bankrupt' in no time....
Pluboy2 said…
hehe looks like william is getting this SOMEWHERE lol.. a good point.. TO RECEIVE or GIVE? hehehe :P
William said…
@Jase:
Give and take lor, as househusband!

@Neo:
I admire you. A girl who doesn't take advantage of her bf. Hehe.

@Daniel:
Your tastes are too avant garde!!

@Nyonya:
After 'bankrupt' find 'Ah Long'. Haha.

@PluB:
..That is the question..
famil said…
dont like to be pampered. suffocating ooo..

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