Been a long time since I wrote about Japanese GV actors. There's this one guy called Kensei (for COAT ) who looks really cute in my opinion. Has an angular face with cute eyes. Also a sunny smile with a gap tooth, though it's rare. And he has a nice physique ( nice pecs, abs, thighs, not overly-developed ) that is coupled with a tanned complexion ( I don't need my boys to be tanned, but I'm sure many out there like that kinda thing ). Very sporty. Looks great in Speedos and track suits. Really can carry off the athlete look. Perfect with the exception of his package-- not so well-endowed compared to his peers in the industry. I'm not a size queen, so I don't mind. Overall, a handsome fella. On his 'acting skills', he's not exactly expressive ( think Keanu Reeves ), but of course I can overlook that. One of the titles puts his statistics as 188 cm, 78 kg, and 18 years old. Not too sure about the age. Think that's fabricated. I've seen h...
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The question is, "How can I not be disappointed by different expectations?"
With no expectations, you can fully enjoy whatever experiences that comes by.
We all can live a life of no expectations.
:)
@Janvier:
That's the problem. How to define "too much".
@Zemien:
I shall endeavour to reach Nirvana.
@JJ:
What if the expectation is really low already?
@DanielH:
So wise. :P
@Anon1: Anon2:
I shall try my best.
@QueerR:
You must the happiest person on earth!
@All:
Thanks for your input. Appreciate it!
If you say you expect the sun to rise tomorrow, or that so and so will certainly turn up late, that is an entirely natural, perhaps habit-induced, behaviour.
But I don't think you meant this, but rather, an obligation, ie a return you expect to get for something you have done or not, or - to use an ugly word - for your investments.
But the moment a relationship is seen as an investment, thats the beginning of the end.
For then the relationship is all about manipulation to get what you want, or what you expected, for don't we need to get a certain rate of returns for our investments or else we are losers in this world.
You may then say, but love is not all about the other, for it is also about you own needs, and that there needs to be a balance of giving and receiving.
Bu then such is a trading relationship, which is also the essence of prostitution.
Rather love is mutual unconditional giving - painful most of the time - which has the appearance of trade but is not.
And conversely sex has the appearance of love but is not.
And prostitution is more honest, ie it is sex for some explicit returns, eg money, without any illusion or pretense of love.
But perhaps you meant yet another thing in expectations, do you?