Saturday, August 25, 2012

Bottoms Up!

bizarre wars #01 by cool_colonia4711
bizarre wars #01, swiped from cool_colonia4711 on Flickr.

Top. Bottom. Pitcher. Catcher. 1. 0. Whenever I discuss gay sexual roles with virgins, I often get the feeling that they categorize themselves as tops until proven otherwise. Kinda like the preferred option. There's like some kind of fear and stigma attached to being the one being fucked. Is it emasculating? Is it for the fear of having one's ass ruined beyond the help of even Jamu Mak Dara? It's weird. You wanna fuck someone's ass, but you 'know' that it's 'bad' for the recipient. But if everyone avoided bottoming, what would you be left with? Drain pipes? End of the day, I believe that these things are fluid. There should be some give and take. Some couples are very versatile. Some couples are happy with their fixed roles, but that does not mean that can't switch once in a blue moon. The bottom line (hahahahaha) is that there should be some give and take. Be considerate. Don't be selfish and enjoy each other's bodies. And bottoming isn't the end of the world! :)

10 comments:

Ultraman Jino said...

what's wrong being a bottom? you gonna try both to know which one feels better! /slurp~




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Nicholas Nick said...

omg, i love this post william. Should've go worldwide instead! hahahaha Thumbs up!

nicky05 said...

eyes rolling *

Simon T. said...

we should always try new things.
like what you said and yeah agreed with it.

soul232 said...

so what role are u?? =P LOLLL

some even go further and define how the relationship gonna be according to the sexual role..like the top foot all the bill, be the driver, always the giver while the bottom just wait and receive..kinda stupid IMHO =D

William said...

@Jino:
I know you have tried both ;)

@Nick:
Thanks! It's already worldwide, but nobody reads. :P

@Nicky05:
;D Terasa?

@SimonT:
Try all positions! :P

@Soul232:
Read my back posts and you will know! The top has to be the driver? So ridiculous le...

- a L E x - said...

*like like*

Anonymous said...

william is a super cute bottom and i'd love to give him head one day!

William said...

@Anon:
Wah! Got free BJ! ^_^

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