Lou Gai

"Dear, I am unhappy about something. I want you to do something for me, but I can't tell what it is..."

"Cause if I do, then it will lose its significance!"


Am I making any sense? Can you relate? Perhaps you've encountered such a scenario in your relationships before.

P.S.: Don't worry about KH and I. In the end, I told him. We overcame this little piece of pre-bedtime drama. LOL.

Comments

Cheryl said…
just ask lo. u r right dear!
Skyhawk said…
Just tell....sometime very difficult for one to guess...I will assume he wants me to hug and hold him tight if he were to Lou Gai like this....more may be he wants baby like nicky05 said...lolx!
Gratitude said…
"lou gai" ~ I seriously thought this post wuz about prostitution. lolz
+Ant+
Janvier said…
Not easy to expect someone to know what to do leh. What with different expectations, different wants and needs, different perspectives, different levels of priority, if you don't say it at all the other person might never guess.
Jaded Jeremy said…
I totally understand! E.g. you're noticeably sad and want comfort from your partner but after some considerably time (admitted the length of it is subjective hehe), he still hasn't noticed and comforted you. You want him to but if you tell him, the comfort loses its sincerity. Another example is getting an apology. If asked, how would you know it's sincerely given or not, right?
ichimaru akira said…
I hate it when people say that line...
William said…
@Cheryl: @Janvier:
No amount of tips would suffice. Haha.

@MrD:
Cannot kiss over the phone. :P

@Nicky:
Make with you ah?

@SkyHawk:
It's always difficult to guess. I'm too weird. :P

@Grat:
Retired chicken? LOL.

@JJ:
Yup, you're right. Hehe.

@Ichi:
Awwww... I'm glad KH let's me do these silly things. Chances to manja. :P
Pike-chan said…
It's like the feeling that both people are already close to each other and one is not happy, the other should already know what to do to cheer him up...

If it's being told... the significance is lost... i understand it like that la.. lols
carpe diem said…
Communication is very important. It can make or break a relationship.

Let there not be any guessing, second guessing, mind reading and reading between the lines.

It is good that you voiced it out.
savante said…
Very few people are psychic! Speak!
MrBunnyBan said…
Hrm. I'm the only one saying that sort of thing, and it wasn't in my current relationship.
Pluboy2 said…
lougainess to its max!

me dun like.
kidz said…
Last i heard something similar was my best friend traying to hint/get her fiance to get a 5 carat engagement ring from tiffany, and she say she gives the description but she still wants the surprise.. anything like that? =p
William said…
@Pikey:
Knowing that something is amiss is good enough. :)

@CarpeD:
I never like to let things linger past bedtime.

@Savante:
No medication that can help? :P

@Ban:
"it wasn't in my current relationship". Why the past tense?

@Takashi:
Don't lou gai k?

@Kidz:
That one already "draw out the intestine"!
kidz said…
haha.. but u also still tell eventually.. anything inside and outside intestine oso see jor.. ;p

so is it something similar? i dun mind tagging along kh to tiffany over the weekend.. nvr enter be4.. excited!!
Derek said…
I agree with Savante! I'm not psychic! LOL
William said…
@Kidz:
You convince him la. :P

@Derek:
With your superior forehead, I'm sure you can do better!
Pluboy2 said…
lol... i got my own lau gai style...

(word verif: rearpoint)
Unknown said…
cutenya cara you laogai~




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